For reference, I did the China Doll thing with exH. It isn't worth it because the cheese always moves. If it isn't your weight it's your outfit, if it isn't your outfit it is your hair etc... It isn't that he wouldn't have sex with me because of it - he just wanted to make sure that I understood that I wasn't worthy of whatever sex we did have. The amount of sex varied widely. Guess what - I really didn't want sex with him much at all. If I had a sexual impulse it was while he was away from the house. I can't see your H when he says these things, can't feel the vibe, read the body language etc... so I'm not sure whether it is verbal abuse, said to try to hurt you or whether it is truly how he feels. I just know that your comments on this bb reveal you as a remarkable lady. You deserve better whether it is from your H or someone else. Stick around here - you never know what might happen.
