It's Unanimous- We both want out.

[MJontheMend]

I don't think I properly conveyed the convo I had with my H. He wasn't trying to be verbally abusive or cruel to me. He was revealing that the very most important thing he needs/wants from a wife is for her to be physically attractive. He also once again confirmed that he has very little need for a wife who is sexual. He told me that he has become and will become a better husband in direct proportion to the care I take with my appearance.Basically, he wants a pretty china doll that he can worship from afar.

I am not divorcing him because he is cruel. I am divorcing him because he has revealed himself to be someone with whom I am hopelessly incompatible. I can not love someone who is so superficial and so lacking in imagination and passion.