Hmmm...I spent 16 years married to someone who always thought I was fat. If I lost weight, he'd keep harping that I'd probably just gain it back. I never could please him. He even did this after I gave birth to both kids even though I gained less than 25 lbs each pregnancy and lost it quickly. The difference was that he always wanted sex after telling me that I should kill myself because I was so fat. I finally walked out and filed for divorce after getting fed up with his constant verbal abuse.
