FF and I can commiserate with each other and LP can give us advice like a big sister with more experience of men and the world. Though I don't think I necessarily have a tendency to attract LD men. Most of my lovers before I was married would fall more into the category of HD boys. I just realized as I typed this that I have never had sex with anyone over the age of 24 besides my H.
Lee, You can borrow my French Maid Costume anytime you want. Just be sure and have it dry cleaned before you return it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver