JJ, I'm not going to talk you out of dumping him. I don't know what his game is, but you don't need to put up with this kind of treatment. Yikes-- what a baby! But please don't leave the BB. Your thoughts and comments are very valuable. There are plenty of men in the world who would love to meet a woman like you... just look very carefully or you will unconsciously attract the same kind of guy. Watch for those red flags VERY early!!

The first time I went out for a drink with my bf the day we met, we had an intense five-hour conversation. When we parted, I got a VERY lukewarm hug...hmmm... a teeny red warning buzzer went off in my head and I ignored it. I'm not saying that that alone was grounds for not pursuing the R, but there were other teeny signs early that I talked myself out of.

I know you're not looking for anyone right this minute... jsut wanted to throw that stuff in.