The real question is, how are you going to deal with it?
It isn't fair that he continues to do things that tank your self esteem. As long as he succeeds, he will continue to do so.
Please consider this.
He is wrong. You are more woman (and I don't mean fat), than he will ever find somewhere else. He can't replace you, he can't even find someone that comes close. He knows it, so he tears at you.
You must consider that he is wrong, and be strong. Don't let his words tear down who you are. They are simply not true. There is nothing wrong with your hair, your weight or your makeup.
You can not look like a computer enhanced digital magazine image. No one can, not even the original photographic subject.
Call him on it, whether or not you divorce him. Call him on it because it is the right thing to do for yourself.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
