One of the things we've learned as a couple is that my W's desire follows arousal. Heck lot's of time, mine does too. So when she says she "willing" to go upstairs she's usually feeling "neutral" about the idea of LM. But 9 times out of 10, she DOES get into into it. Therefore, there really isn't a lot of "mercy sex" going on here. Maybe I can call it "mercy compliance" or something. I'm very satisfied with the quantity of sex right now. I would just like to be able to effectively seduce before we get into bed.
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