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But if there is NEVER any remark that she wants sex, for herself and because she wants him, and ALL the remarks are in the "let's do this so you don't get crabby" vein, then he will have no reason to believe that she desires him.




It's been a while since she has done one of these. I no longer get crabby and she really hasn't been that mechanical lately...I need to give her some credit. I was just in a funky mood when I posted this.

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And, you know, the only reason I would even suggest that she is wrong is because he has asked her to not do this and she continues with it anyway.





I'm fairly certain she can learn...and I'm not one to silently accept it the way it is. ;-) On that same note, we've learned to talk about these issues much better than we used to too. It's now downright peaceful.


Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright