AltDave. I see 4 verbal invites for sex. What is wrong with that? What about W's non-verbal hints for a SR?
I gather you want more hot sex from your W. Sounds like your W can only make herself say 'bedroom time' and you want her to say "how about F'ing me." Some people can only use the cute words like 'bedroom time'.
I read your post about the attraction factor or the lack of the attraction factor and was thinking that learning to read the signals women send out is also part of the problem guys have when they want to make a connection. When it comes to women, I put myself in the not much magnetism and a poor signal reader to boot.