Phoenix, I have caught up on your sitch. It sounds like you want to do a bit of LRT'ing, 'eh!? Well, I must say that it helped me - once I had stated, seriously and with commitment, that I was moving on, my H seemed to finally see what he was giving up. He tells me now that he is awake now - totally weird. I still sit and wonder what happened with him, internally, to change his mind. Who knows! I know a lot of wonderful people were praying for us. I am still feeling humbled and astounded and sometimes a little disbelieving, but that is slowly diminishing.

Anyway, my H has been very supportive with my stress about moving, so I can only go by his actions, and it's all good right now. I'm not going to be so arrogant to think that it will be perfect forever, but I think our R will be vastly improved compared to how it was before B1.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim