Good luck with that move... and guess what... i am thinking how to introduce my h that common C for both too... right now he is going to his same C (or at least i think he is still going although i had noted some changes in directions or acttidude)and in the past he said he think he needs first to clarify what he feels and wants and then, he can accept going together Being me, why are you so afraid about OW?... did she live near the place you are going to live? it seems i missed that part.... Andrea