I see your point, Phoenix. I do think him tellin the children and my niece and nephew-in-law was a good thing. It helped me to feel that he means it this time.

I do feel as if he has been confused about his life. I sure have been very confused about us, so I guess it's fair to say that he could feel similar. I just do not like the fact that the OW will be nearby if we move. However, he may have to take this job, so I have little choice.

I guess we'll have to take this one day at a time, and see where it leads us. I will make changes, but he should too.

Thanks for checking in on me. I hope you see some light at the end of the tunnel soon.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim