Not much change in my sitch, and don't expect any until the house is sold. I am excited by the prospect of change, as much as I am frightened by change. But, I'm a pretty strong person, and generally bounce back after adversity. I feel that perhaps this new life is what I need now, and who knows what the future brings, 'eh! I need to prove I can make it on my own - mmmm, sounds like the words to a song or something.
A good friend of mine (the one who has been giving me so much good advice about my marriage) has just been diagnosed with breast cancer, and I am still a little in shock. She goes into the operating theatre next week. Thankfully, the lump is small, and it was caught as early as it's possible to be caught, and the prognosis is good (I am thankful for those awful mammogram machines, and for self breast exams - that's how she discovered the lump). News like this gives one a different perspective on life, indeed. So what if my H has cheated on me, and caused me so much pain. I will step away from it, and move on. Life is just not worth wasting time on wishing for something that you're just not going to get. As Phoenix said, leave it in God's hands. We can only do our best, and choose to do what's right, and if that don't work, then you just end it and move on. Hoo boy! I have been so philosophical today.
Today, I get my new car!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
She goes into the operating theatre next week. Thankfully, the lump is small, and it was caught as early as it's possible to be caught, and the prognosis is good (I am thankful for those awful mammogram machines, and for self breast exams - that's how she discovered the lump). News like this gives one a different perspective on life, indeed. So what if my H has cheated on me, and caused me so much pain. I will step away from it, and move on. Life is just not worth wasting time on wishing for something that you're just not going to get. As Phoenix said, leave it in God's hands. We can only do our best, and choose to do what's right, and if that don't work, then you just end it and move on. Hoo boy! I have been so philosophical today. 
