Hi BeingMe - This is so difficult with children, the poor mites. Its funny you should mention packing. I recall now a couple of months after the bomb, I was slowly de-cluttering, in the back of my mind was the thought that if I did decide to move, I wanted things to be as simple as possible. Let me tell you, it really spooked NG. I never mentioned anything about moving, and he now tells me it was more menacing because I was silent.