I agree with Slowly. Words are one thing, actions are another. Pull out your copy of DR and re-read (heck, I should too!).

I think some times it can just be a relief for someone to get ambivalent feelings out in the open, you know?

I do like the ideas you guys came up with re. finances and the whole school thing. Keep moving forward with goals and see where it takes you.

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.