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[sage]

Do you mean that he's been lying about loving you? Or about something else?

Would you tell us more about the exchange? Sometimes writing out the conversation helps a lot to pick out what's really happening.

I'm sensing (ok, ASSuming) that you guys had an R talk where you expressed frustration that he isn't "doing" enough? And, in part, his response was that he's just been going along to get along?

If so, been there, done that. Over the DB'ing time period, whenever I expressed reservation or frustration over things not happening fast enough or "right" enough for me, h's kneejerk reaction was to pull out the D card and withdraw. Is that what's happening here?

Sage