Yes this site is for advice and venting. If your going to whine, do it here. Like yourself I feel the exact same feelings. Just keeping sticking it out. Like usual I would say forgiveness and trust is as much for you as it is for them. I keep telling myself if I don't take these steps the problems will never be resolved. If we deal with them when our spouse is there, then things will possibly be solve, otherwise it will be an unsolvable problem in our life which just hangs there. I'm going with plan A.
