I forgot to mention that my H gave me a card and some lovely white roses on Valentine's Day. I was totally caught unaware, as I had said that we could celebrate it on the 16th instead, as he had classes on Monday, plus I hate the idea of everything being so expensive because it's VD. Luckily, I had already bought his card, a t-shirt and some choclates.

I am grateful for the progress we have made since the bomb on May 9, 2004. Heck, he wasn't interested in anything (happy to have sex, though - ha!), except being friends and going our separate ways. I was able to let go of the rope, but now that he has committed, I find I have to pick it up again, but I'm scared it'll turn into a snake. But, trust is an ongoing issue that most of us in Piecing are finding problematic - those of us still with our spouses, that is.

My other challenge is flirting with my H. I was never much of a flirt, but I find now that that was a way to bring him back. And, I find it difficult to keep coming up with unique, different ways to flirt with him. Oy! Do the challenges never cease! Is there a flirt school one could go to?

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim