I see your point about H controlling the physical environment. I think both I and my W have the same coping strategy. And I wonder how much the months of remodeling, walking around boxes and constantly moving furniture, contributed to the dissatisfaction that W felt.
Is H aware of this behavior pattern in himself?
Hope things are going well with the kids. What did S13 finally decide about school?
I've seen several references to the "expressive LL" vs the "receiving LL" now. I don't remember seeing the difference covered in 5LL, particularly the idea that people with a certain expressive LL have a different receiving LL, e.g., AOS expressive seeking WOA. Is there another source for this kind of comparison?
Thanks,
K
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