All I can say is that you are doing the very best for your D and it shows. Make sure you keep all of this posting so that some day you can show your D what YOU saw in your view of it all, unfolding the way it is right in front of your own eyes. I know if I were your child and I read all this, it would make me think about what is going on in my life and to get a different percpective.
Not to mention that looking back at all your posting would show her how much love you have for her and everything you are doing for her well being. It would make for an awesome life perspective. Maybe when this is all over though.
You are doing so much and deserve a Hero's Salute for your strength and love for your family.
We are all behind you and praying for you!
Berto
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death