Thanks, Koshka, for the input.

I'm not big on spying, but I do feel pretty strongly that sometimes, you just can't get anywhere until the cards are on the table. D needs to know that she no longer has us and her therapist snowed - AND that we won't allow her to sink further into her depression and hurt herself. She may complain, but I know from my experience with her eating disorder that deep inside she wants us to save her from her scary internal demons/ mental illness.

Now I have never believed in astrology, scientist that I am, although I've been impressed at some people's eerily accurate Cainercasts that they post on the board. So I bought People magazine this week, and thought I'd check the online forecast - here's my D's:

Some children, when ignored by their busy parents, deliberately behave badly. This makes the adults stop whatever they are doing to tell them off. It's not much fun but, for those with an emotional hunger, negative attention is often preferable to no attention. Might there be a trace of this psychology in your current attraction to a situation that can't be right? Do you feel that because you can't get what you want from somewhere, the next best thing is to get from that same place, what you don't want? Watch for that syndrome this week. Jupiter is now pulling you while Saturn is pushing.

Spooky, huh? (Although I OBJECT to the thought that I've ignored her - but certainly I wasn't watching as closely as was necessary, was I?)

Ellie