Thank you for your advice on the books. I have the 5LL as well as Venus/Mars. I think that I will opt with the 5LL first and go from there. I guess it will all depend on her reaction to it. I certainly hope that she finds it to be of some help. I also hope that she seeks some other books out on her own but if not I will always be happy to point her in the direction of some. Besides counseling what else is out there? I am not sure about Retrouvaille but I don't think anything like that would hurt. I want you to know that I am not going to go nuts and push a bunch of things on her but I want to come up with as many ideas as possible just in case we need/want to use them down the road. For the time being I am content with the fact that she is willing to read and go to the counseling as well as spending time with me. I am hopeful that everything works out and appreciate of any advice.