Quote: I don't think I can be the one to call. I usually am, and I just don't think I can do it this time, especially in light of his long-term pattern of passivity and my feeling that he keeps choosing himself over the R.
From my obstructed view seat (i.e., I know I'm missing some of the action) this is what I see. But that's a problem all of us experience, especially when we think we can have both.
