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However, on this one issue, if I were to ask myself, "How is my morning need for connection being met over the last week/month/year?" I would have to say, no matter how you slice it, the results are abysmal.


I know this is a BIG issue for you - but you have just twisted my point into a wider look at ONE issue. And I was suggesting that you step back and look at MANY issues over the a longer stretch of time.

JinB: Question: 1 issue/ 1 morning
Answer: I lose, I lose, I lose, I lose, I lose - that no good #@$$% I'll show him!

H2H: Question: Overall feeling / this week
Answer: Well life on the dairy farm has been good; he did cook me dinner; we went to a movie; we snuggled 4 out of 5 nights. Now if I could ONLY get him to pay attention to me in the morning! Gee, I'm gonna have to work on that one - my little snuckums is sure stubborn when it comes to that!

The difference is that you don't have to discount all the things that are going well while you keep at the pesky issue that so gets you in a tizzy!

And just to reiterate a few things:
1. S. DOES care
2. S. is NOT deaf
3. S. is NOT purposely trying to annoy or hurt you



Have fun tonight!
-H2H