You may be jumping to conclusions but you may also be right. For months I thought my H was lying to me. I kept finding things but he dismissed them and I took him at his word. We were constantly fighting and I couldn't figure out why. Now I see that he was keeping me at a distance because he had so many secrets. His stories weren't adding up and he realized I was catching on.
My gut instinct told me something was extremely wrong but I wanted so badly for things to work that I ignored huge red flags. It took the OW showing up at my house for me to see.
I think you were away when all of my drama went down. My H and I are divorcing. He not only had a ONS, he also got involved with another woman 5 months after the ONS (3 months after we reconciled). Was intimate with her once and had been talking to her on the phone for months. He finally ditched her when she started pressuring him to see him (she lives out of state).
I wish I would have followed my gut instincts. I had to be hit over the head to see what was right in front of my face.
I know this is anti-DBing but I think you need to ask him what is going on.
