Your help is appreciated. I just ordered the book "The Sex-Starved Marriage". Yes....we have been having problems other than sex. I'm involved in a minor lawsuit. Her ex-husband (an OB-GYN) hasn't paid his child-support in almost a year and we found out a month ago (through the local newspaper) that he hasn't filed a tax return since 2001. Her oldest child is getting ready to go to college and he may not be able to go....etc. etc. etc. She has been drinking more since we found this out. Last weedk she drank 20 beers in two days. I like to have a beer or two but I see a problem. As far as how often we have sex, it is maybe once a week but if I don't "do" something she wants she can be highly critical. That does nothing for my self-esteem. I moved into our lake house (temporarily) last Thursday but she has told me that she will be moving out of our house next Thursday or Friday because I don't find her physically attractive. There are so many things.
We have had our ups and downs these last 18 months (we've been married 30 months) but this is something new. I have been to a counselor at least 15 times but she doesn't want to go to any marriage counselor, or minister. I am at wits end....More suggestions.....
