My wife has a higher sex drive. However it is at "inappropriate" times. Right when I walk in the door after a hard day of work, after she has been drinking, etc. She has three teenage kids from a previous marriage and I'm uncomfortable with the way she is when I get home and then when the kids go to their father's house (every two weeks for two weeks) there is no sex drive in her and she spends her time playing video games, smoking and drinking beer. So yes, my sex drive has become lower. Now she is making rude comments about me not finding her attrative etc and I have actually told her about my feelings (see above) but she just dismisses that as nonsense and that makes me feel "unheard" Can you see the viscious cycle......Suggestions please.