Welcome aboard this leaky boat, VLeigh (BTW, I loved you in Gone with the Wind! )-- I urge you to copy your whole post and start a thread of your own below. Just click where it says "post." Usually there isn't any real dialogue in this thread-- it's just where people land when they finally find this place, and find out with relief that they're not crazy and that they're not alone.
Your post broke my heart, and it was so familiar... you'll find many like-minded, helpful people here, with some solid advice.
This part
Quote: I hear all the stories about how my H was such a ladies man and a player when he was in college. He even told me that he didn't have it in him anymore because he has sex so much before me.
REALLY hurts...
Please stick around... you're among people who understand.
)-- I urge you to copy your whole post and start a thread of your own below. Just click where it says "post." Usually there isn't any real dialogue in this thread-- it's just where people land when they finally find this place, and find out with relief that they're not crazy and that they're not alone. 
