Judy, I assure you that you are completely anonymous here.... you're welcome to start a thread of your own below and we'll be glad to hear about your sitch and give solicited or unsolicited advice. Go ahead and come out of the shadows-- EVERYONE here knows what you're going through from first hand experience. The thing about waking the kids-- many have said the same thing. And if you feel that you're odd because you're the W who wants more sex than your H-- you're in ample company among the women here.
So, please take a chance on us-- keep all identifying details out of your posts. Change names (most of us don't use partners' names or names of children), don't say where you live, and I promise you, no one will ever know who you are.
Time to reach out, girlfriend, and take some friendly hands that are reaching out to you! It's a very tiny risk, and you may find it's worth it.
