You've come to the right place... the place no one wants to be. You are among people who understand what you are going through-- believe me we do.
Why not start a thread of your own below and tell us something about yourself and your situation. We may not be able to help, but sometimes it helps just to know that others truly understand. (The board is kind of slow on weekends, so don't get discouraged if there aren't replies right away.)
Many of us in this forum have also been in past relationships where the sex was fabulous and it's killin' us that this is such a troubled issue in the current relationship.
There is a web site for asexual people, and I think it has a message board... http://www.asexuality.org/home/ You might post your sitch there and see what people have to say. Although confirming your suspicions probably won't make you feel any better.
