I am in a marriage that the sex is so absolutely terrible. I'm sure we probably have the worst sex life possible. The even sadder part is that I have always been in relationships with really awesome sex, so it's terribly difficult for me to just try to be "satisfied" with this. I feel like I'm wasting my best years having no sex and being completely deprived of affection. I would like to have an affair with someone who is a good lover and who enjoys have romantic, passionate sex - rather than someone who just wants to penetrate, get off, not please their partner at all, and be done. It's really terrible being in this situation and our awful sex life is really driving a wedge between us. We usually get along as brother/sister just fine, but because of our terrible sex life, I'm frustrated and short tempered with him. I think he's asexual or something, but he's most certainly the least sexual person I've ever met. I don't know why I ever thought a sexless marriage would work.
