Wow! What a blessing. I thought I was all alone. My husband and I have been working on this issue for 3 years now. I am so glad to know there is a book that deals with it. You can bet I will be purchasing that! At this point, I am desperate to try anything. I told my husband the other night I felt like I had 3 options. 1. I could live in a sexless marriage for the rest of my life (I am only 26) 2. I could have an affair. 3. I could get a divorce. None of those options are going to work for me, so anything is better than nothing! One good thing is that my husband is dedicated to going to counseling. He says he wants this to change as much as I do, but only time will tell. Again- thanks so much for this forum. What a life saver. My self esteem has been in the dumps because of this!
