I have been reading your book SSM and I am truly thinking about divorcing my husband. We have been together for 11 years and his job is the #1 priority in his life.
His "job" is the reason he is too tired, or has to get up so early or he works 17 days in a row with out a break, so on and so fouth, etc. that doesn't allow us to have an initmate relationship; or so he says. (Keep in mind, HE is in charge of making the schedule!!!) I have been patience, I have purchased books, I have been to couseling and so has he and still NO improvement.
Frankly, I am TIRED of feeling bad, emotionally rejected, and physcially unfilled!!! I have never cheated on him, but the longer time goes on, I can't say that I am not tempted. Granted, I have not had any offers, but I have told my husband several times over the years that I do not want to hit the "point of no return"-- and that is exactly the point at which I am feeling right NOW.
