Please help me understand. My husband and I have been married for 3 years and together for 11. We were very young when we started dating and have gone through a lot in our relationship. The last year or so has been very rocky. We started fighting all of the time and finally got to the point where he wanted to leave. It took that to make me realize what my part in this whole mess was. We both agreed after some convincing on my part that we would give counseling a try. However each time we go he repeats how he loves me but is not in love with me. He feels no sexual connection to me any longer and is not attracted to me. I am still attracted to him and look at him in that way. I feel I am a very attractive young person with a lot going for me in my life. I cant understand why he isnt attracted to me anymore. Is there anyway to get back the sparks. Can he find his way back to me?
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15
