letsdolunch65, GEL is a wise poster, so take what she has to say to heart. Also start a thread. It is easy. If you want someone to get you thread started, we will. You could name your thread "4 Conseption Dates" or anything else.
When you are on the Sex Starved Marriage forum, pook for an icon that looks like a page. The word "post" will be next to to the icon,. click it on and type away.
This thread is mainly for stopries and research from high drive women with low drive men. There are books for HD men with low drive LD wives but not too many books for hi drive women HDW with low drive H's LDH.
BTW, glad to see you post. You are in a good place here. Sorry your home life is so complicated.