It is NOT your husbands fault that you have had multiple affairs.
I do agree that he had a sexual responsibility to you that he did not meet. I agree that he contributed to the condition of your marriage.
He did NOT, however, hold you hostage to have an affair. That was your choice. ALL yours.
You can't recover your marriage while there are three people in it.
Here is something of a truism that I wrote regarding people involved in affairs.
An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
Do you see yourself in that statement?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
