Sorry you had to come here, but welcome. You could not have picked a better, more supportive place to come. There are plenty of folks, both men and women, here who have been or are in the same situation. Many have had success in bring life back into their marriages and sex lives, most are still working on it. If you haven't read Michelle's SSM book yet, please get a copy. The key to getting past this seems to be communication. Have you told him in no uncertain terms how unhappy you are? He needs to know, and he needs to know that you are nearing the end of your rope. My W and I got a very good jump-start by attending a World-wide marriage encounter weekend, which is a structured forum for you to get started with one on one communication at a very deep level with your spouse. Not saying that you'd have the same success with the weekend, but it is certainly worth a try...you've got nothing to lose. There are several ladies here who have husbands with little or no natural drive: Honeypot, Greeneyed Lass, Lilliperl are a few tht have been here for over a year. Read their stories, they are an inspiration.
