I am a LDH, and W is nearly WAW. She has expressed many of the emotions listed, but she waited until they became venemous and poisoned her love for me. There are a number of reasons that I am LDH, none are unfixable. Trouble is we both continued more of same until too late. Now it has been over two months with no contact. I moved into the spare room a few days a go, as I couldn't stand being so close to her knowing that she didn't even want me at all. I moved to spare room to slow down her urge to run. I will read SSM, and reread these posts, but I fear that it is too late for us to work things out.
She is beautiful, the love of my life, and I am a fool for not getting help! How I wish I could get her to post here! I wish she would read these posts, and see that our problem is no where near unique. She had the most painful sneer on her face when she saw my copy of SSM, it was a sneer full of pity, with a touch of "you wish" mixed in. I wish I knew how to break down her wall, or send messages over it, to show her that there are many other people who have worked through the same situation. Alas, I am at a loss. (bigtime)
