puzzled2 wrote
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Older bodies don't do it for guys when they are surrounded by perfect airbrushed media images.
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Real guys know the media images are fake. I like older bodies and someone that had a simillar background. Beatles=yes, Snoop-Dog, can't relate.
Hair on the legs, mini-mustach, that's fine. We will see whose is longer, shorter, finer, etc, just have fun talking about it. It's natural (hair) isn't it.
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I don't think there is much hope for a good sex life after you have kids unless you find a really special and realistic guy who doesn't care that you aren't perfect........
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I was happy with my W's body after she had our children. To see it sooooo streched out of shape and how uncomfortable she was during pregnancy, later a couple of strech marks did not bother me.
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.......and finds you sexy in broad daylight or in sweatpants anyway.
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I like sex with the lights on. Looking at W's body and touching it, almost instant desire. Hay, I do not have any of those parts. I want ot find more about them. Keep the lights on to see what feels SOOOOO GOOOOD and her wounderful smile if we are connecting emotionally. Wife is LD and thinks this is all perveted.
Not wanting to hi-jack Michelles thread. Just want puzzled2 to know there are some guys that like the total woman, the relationship. Maybe self image is more important to puzzled2 than it needs to be. Don't borrow trouble puzzled2.
Sorry you are in the dumps. Post your story on one of the forums and see if someone can help you and your M. don't hold anything back. We have heard a lot. Some good people here.