I knew my h had a low drive long before we married...trouble is I didn't know it would stay that way let alone get worse.
We met young and I'll admit I was the initiator of most sexual interactions in the begining (he was a nice boy) but he soon took over...but then...
he started his own business and all went downhill from there...
slowly his drive diminished to the point where he was rarely initiating and rejected me when I did...(so I don't bother any more due to YEARS of rejection)
he also started falling asleep all the time...
it became more than just lack of sex but lack of attention (sure he'd come to see me but would soon fall asleep on the couch)
Obviosly at this point there's far more wrong with my marriage than just lack of sex...to tell you the truth at this point I'd rather take care of myself (and do) than have sex with him...I used to just enjoy the sex now it's empty and I know it. He hardly initiates now so it's really not something I have to worry much over.
