Sorry if my playing the "generalization cop" made you (or anyone) feel uncomfortable.

The more a person posts here, the more they reveal how they think. I've gotten some great benefits from others who have done the same thing to me. Trust me...nobody on this site will change their spouse (or the nature of their relationship) while remaining the same person they are right now. Cat, you are fairly new here and I can understand how you might be a bit timid but you will quickly learn that 99% of the responses you get are compassionate...even the ones that sting a little.


Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright