And throw in the Internal Self and the External Self that you portray and the cultural conditioning you have received on what it means to be a Man and you have one reluctant person. You have the Man you are on the Inside, the Man you portray to others and the Man that you have been taught you should be, all fighting each other.
LD women don't really have this, imo. We are brought up to believe that women don't want as much sex as men. That wives routinely turn their husbands down.
So if I as a wife wake up one day and feel that way, I would be mystified and afraid and sad but I would have the support of millions of other women as well as a society that promotes this as "normal".
The fellas would have the derision of millions of other men and a society that would portray them as gay or feminine or whatever else a hetero guy might find nightmarish.
