HP, I'm trying to imagine what would be hardest to disclose as an attempt to feel what it would be like to disclose a lack of desire that questioned my manhood. I really don't think it is particularly an LD issue, but more of a how much do I expose myself by disclosing this feeling. Issues such as this that represent such a potential mismatch between your internal self (which may not even be fully concious) and the self you attempt to portray to others are the most painful to share.
