I see what you're saying but I still think it is hard for you to imagine just what an LD man must feel like, given that your overall virility has already been well established. (6 children after all!!:)
Can you imagine how you'd feel if you never wanted sex? If all the jokes that you've heard your whole life about horny men didn't apply to you? What if your wife was so utterly disappointed in you and your sexuality? What if she said to you, "Other men want me, why don't you?" What if you constantly feared that some virile guy was going to come swooshing in and steal her away?
I'm not saying that LDW's don't feel this..only that with a man who has been conditioned his whole life to think that he should be feeling a certain way (a horny guy who is always after sex, no matter what) and he doesn't, that he would be extremely reluctant to admit that to anyone, including himself.
