Blind, As a chatty guy (which my husband is also) can you address my "how eager" question?
Do you think that you would have a harder time discussing why your wife's sex drive has far outsripped your own? Do you think you would have ease in expressing that you don't desire her the way she does you? Would this make you feel emasculated or would you feel better talking about your feelings, even if they made you feel ashamed?
I'm curious to know if this is a personality difference (talker vs. nontalker) or if it is indeed the subject matter that makes it so hard to open up.