My goodness, no I'm not offended. Just stating that while as a generalization your comment may be true, it isn't true in all cases. I've stated before in my thread that I feel like the chick in my relationship, mainly because it is me who pushes for sharing feelings, me who has to play relationship cop etc. I agree that it is more the norm (whatever that means) for the W to be in that role, but not so sure that it is true in a ssm.