Would it be possible to set up an email address to collect responses from those who don't wish to go into minute detail in the forum? I've written the basics of my situation in the SSM forum, but I would be more comfortable writing about it at length where it was not open to discussion right now.
One thing I have learned about being the HDW, is that for men who have a problem with being LD (I understand from reading here that some don't) the shame and self-doubt it brings is terrible. I hope that this is addressed in the book, because I think it would help some women understand the pressures being LD puts on men (and why they may not talk about it even if they KNOW it's an issue).
BTW, in the Amazon reviews of SSM there are *many* HDWs who have written reviews praising the book and most of them write about how it was a relief to know there were other HDW/LDH couples out there. I think such a book is a GREAT idea.