Quote: For me, it's more than just having sex, it's being able to make a fool of yourself and one's partner will somehow still find you attractive and appealing. It's just knowing that no matter what you do, silly or whatever, you know your partner will be amused, proud, still loves you, etc.
given the previous definitions of intimacy combined with this one it's pretty evident I do NOT have an intimate realtionship with my husband and the really sad thing is I'm begining to not care anymore either way...that is to say I don't care to have one with him anymore.
I'm realizing more and more that I don't think I even like him as a person.
He's not my friend he's not my lover he's pretty much what he set out to be and that's a financial provider.
sad really but I guess that's all he wants to be to me so I'll let him
