What if you guys talked about a "plan" -- some way that he could tell you "hey, I feel like things might be taking a turn for the worse" and then you could both course correct?
Or...would he be the type of person who would be interested in the KLA tapes? Maybe "working" on something together would alleviate some of his concerns.
Congrats on how far you've come!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.