Quote: I wonder why he doesn't trust me? I am not the one who went outside the marriage. I don't understand it. Could he be afraid that I might turn around and do it to him??
You know that trying to figure out what is going on in the other person's head is usually fruitless..that being said let me throw some things out there: he feels your apprehension/insecurity about the R and is worried/scared you may decide to go back to exb or venture outside....maybe because that is what he did...just a thought. Maybe he is questioning your motives now that things aren't "perfect"...who really knows, probably not even him.
I know what it is like having kids and nobody to babysit...I am virtually a single mom all week now and it is hard but you have to focus on you...if you aren't happy with yourself you can't be happy with anybody else and nobody else can be happy with you.
penngirl, I've been guilty of many of the things your H is doing. The difference is you're telling him. My W didn't that is until now when she has decided to divorce. I'd take him to crisis stage but leave your heart open to welcome him back if he changes. and do it fast. Maybe you can counsel my W? Just kidding. We're at the end of oour rope. See:
Hi everyone! Thanks for checking in on me. I have been having computer problems lately. I didn't mean to just disappear!!!! I will have to check in on everyone and see how everyone's situation is going.
Thnings here have been busy, but good. Communication is getting a little better between H and I. Ow is STILL calling him. Once or twice a week. He doesn't answer the calls though. Ofcourse, a small part of me wonders if he still talks to her. I wonder if he calls her from work, maybe emails her, etc. I guess that is something I have to deal with for a little while.
Anyhow, it's late and I have to get to bed. Thanks again for checking in, I will catch up with everyone soon!!
